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  • Wearing Hanfu to a wedding—anyone else done it?

    Posted by Alyssa Castillo on March 1, 2025 at 6:42 pm

    Okay, anyone ever worn Hanfu to a wedding? How did it go? Was it a hit, or did people look at you like you were out of a period drama? I’ve been thinking about trying it, but I’m not sure if it’ll be well-received! If anyone has done it, I’d love to hear how it went and what kind of Hanfu worked best for a wedding!

    Aaron Clark replied 7 months, 4 weeks ago 2 Members · 3 Replies
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  • ysf1512367207@gmail.com

    Administrator
    March 2, 2025 at 3:00 pm

    Yes, I’ve actually worn Hanfu to a wedding, and it was such a cool experience! The reactions are definitely mixed—it’s not your typical wedding attire, so you might get a few raised eyebrows or curious glances, but honestly, a lot of people were super impressed by it. Here’s what I learned:

    Keep it elegant but simple: For weddings, you probably want to go for something a bit more formal, but not too flashy. A nice, streamlined Hanfu with soft colors (maybe something like pastel pinks or blues) works really well. Stay away from overly bright reds or golds unless you know the couple’s okay with it (red can be a little too bold for some weddings).

    Cultural appreciation: Some guests might not be familiar with Hanfu, so if you’re comfortable with it, take the opportunity to explain it! It can spark some cool conversations.

    Comfort matters: Weddings can be long events, so you’ll want to make sure your Hanfu is comfy enough to wear for hours, especially if there’s a lot of moving around or dancing.

    In the end, it was a hit for me! It felt unique, and I got a lot of compliments. But I did make sure to keep it respectful to the event and the couple.

  • Michelle W

    Member
    April 3, 2025 at 3:05 am

    Yup! Wore a red qixiong ruqun to my cousin’s wedding. Just avoid white (funeral vibes) and check if the couple’s cool with it!

  • Aaron Clark

    Member
    April 3, 2025 at 3:05 am

    Saw a groom in Ming-style daopao – guests loved it! Stick to festive colors like gold or pink if you’re not the bride/groom.

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