Yes, I’ve actually worn Hanfu to a wedding, and it was such a cool experience! The reactions are definitely mixed—it’s not your typical wedding attire, so you might get a few raised eyebrows or curious glances, but honestly, a lot of people were super impressed by it. Here’s what I learned:
Keep it elegant but simple: For weddings, you probably want to go for something a bit more formal, but not too flashy. A nice, streamlined Hanfu with soft colors (maybe something like pastel pinks or blues) works really well. Stay away from overly bright reds or golds unless you know the couple’s okay with it (red can be a little too bold for some weddings).
Cultural appreciation: Some guests might not be familiar with Hanfu, so if you’re comfortable with it, take the opportunity to explain it! It can spark some cool conversations.
Comfort matters: Weddings can be long events, so you’ll want to make sure your Hanfu is comfy enough to wear for hours, especially if there’s a lot of moving around or dancing.
In the end, it was a hit for me! It felt unique, and I got a lot of compliments. But I did make sure to keep it respectful to the event and the couple.